Thursday, October 25, 2012

Tuesday, May 01, 2012

The Power of God in Great Glory!

My mom and I spoke together about making and keeping sacred covenants at BYU Women's Conference on April 26th, 2012.  A link to the printed version of our talk can be found online, and a video recording of the session can be accessed at BYUtv.



Saturday, April 07, 2012

The Colors of Easter


When we picture the colors of Easter, I picture in my mind colored Easter eggs and brightly colored ribbons on baskets. I picture the rebirth of spring with the associated daffodils and tulips, as well as butterflies, birds and bumblebees.

We celebrate Easter with colors, because deep symbolism can be tied to the colors that represent this season!

I have compiled a document - and included it below - which I will use to teach Primary Sharing Time tomorrow, on Easter Sunday outlining the symbolism I see in the colors around us. It is my hope that we can use look at these colors with new eyes, and better appreciate what our Lord has done for each of us.

I feel a depth of gratitude for what Jesus was willing to suffer for me. God gave his Only Begotten son, and was willing to allow him to suffer and die for us, so Jesus Christ could come forth from the tomb, bringing the light and life of the Resurrection.

Tuesday, February 07, 2012

Confessions of a Pajama-Clad Mom

* I long for another child, and am working to reconcile my physical experiences (dealing with infertility and a lack of confirmation regarding proceeding forward on pursuing adoption) with spiritual experiences.
* If you were to come to my home on any given morning, you would likely find all the beds made, the dishes done, the laundry in process... and me looking like a wreck in either my pajamas or exercise clothes!
* I drop my girls off at school way too often with my teeth unbrushed, wearing my coke-bottle glasses and pajamas.
* I am missing the "cinema" section of my brain. I most-often (95% of the time) fall asleep in movies. On the rare occasion when I do remain awake, I rarely remember having seen the movie another or two down the road. Yet, I have a new-found, fond love for the Downton Abbey television series on PBS.
* When I am upset, I can usually find some way to tie Steve to the problem (who is not the problem). Poor guy. Yet he takes it all so lovingly.
* I clean my house way too much. I really need to start reading more books, making more quilts, and exercising with friends more often.
* I eat way too much candy. My favorites vices are all red: cinnamon bears, hot tamales and swedish fish.
* I hate spending money (except on my kids lessons, portraits of my kids, original art from relatively unknown (but famous to me!) artists, and picture frames {to display the art and portraits of the kids}), but I love the idea of spending other peoples money for them! If you know me well, I will often suggest what you should buy for your home, your kids or yourself.
* The opportunity to represent Utah as Young Mother of the Year has provided so many amazing opportunities, yet has placed a microscope for me on my faults as a mother. I am trying my best, yet often fall short and find myself inadequate and leaning on the windows of heaven for strength and guidance.

Monday, February 06, 2012

Happy Birthday Grandpa!

Today is Steve's dad's birthday! We celebrated yesterday with a lovely dinner and sweet tributes.

Grandpa received birthday hugs from his local grandchildren, as well as some touching cards.

We laughed so hard (and are still giggling now, in fact) when dad read Steve's letter out loud and ended the dictation with "Love your son, Stan." Steve says, "Now every time I write my name, I chuckle."

Louisa's Drawing

Ella's Letter
Ella wrote (spelling errors maintained):

Dear Grandpa,
Happy Birthday
I have loved all the fun filled hours we have spent together this year. I remember all of the smokey summer barbaques, your face when B.Y.U. wins a game, and most of all fun in the sun in Mexico. I am verry greatful that your surgery went well. These are golden years and I wish we could freeze time, but obviously we can't. Other than this I am not going to mention polotics. Do you remember when you used to push me in the swing high up into the cherry tree. I love hearing your talks and stories from around the world. And I hope the future is this bright.
Happy Birthday
Love
Ella

Sunday, February 05, 2012

The Extraordinary Ordinary:
Looking Back at a Year of Opportunities
as Utah's Young Mother of the Year

Sometimes the most extraordinary things happen in the most ordinary places. We go about our daily routines and the things we accomplish may seem cloaked in the commonplace.

The poet Mary Jean Irion said: “Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, savor you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may…”

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This past year has been filled, for me, with ordinary days – school pickup and drop-off, instrument practice, cleaning, meal preparations, and laundry (lots of laundry!). And amidst these days, I have experienced moments that are meaningful in the most simply profound ways. Extraordinary moments, like the time when Louisa said, in her nightly prayers: “Dear Heavenly Father, I am so grateful that you sended me as a baby to come to this earth." Or the time when Ella said, “"The only bad thing about the word 'home' is that it is in 'homework'."

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The opportunity to represent Utah as Young Mother of the Year has blessed my life with extraordinary opportunities including:

• Speaking engagements – including television and radio appearances, opportunities to attend AMI's national convention (held in my home town!), teach seminars in conjunction with the Power of Moms, to teach workshops on college campuses, and to speak on divine identity and mother-daughter relationships at youth gatherings. I have loved meeting women face-to-face and spirit-to-spirit – at locations that span from girls camp to the grocery store! Together we have discovered mutual predicaments that bring us closer and make the load lighter to bear.

• I sense a great yearning for instruction and have loved reaching young mothers in the online territories they frequent – through this blog and Facebook.

• I have studied your examples and have been tutored. I have loved learning from each of you, and especially from Sally Olsen (Utah's Mother of the Year). She is a woman of great strength and wisdom.

• I have had ample opportunities within this role to lean on the windows of heaven for strength and guidance. And I have been supported and surrounded.


Representing American Mothers has brought many opportunities for personal growth. This year:

• I have come to understand – even more – how important for my two daughters, my example and teachings are. Sometimes I learn this the hard way! One day last month Louisa was making terrible noises in the back of the car. I asked her, "Louisa, what are you doing? That sounds terrible!" She responded, "Trying to burp like you do, Mommy." Obviously, I still retain some remnants of my childhood training imposed by 5 brothers. Isn’t it amazing all that we inadvertently teach the next generation?

• I have learned and grown as I have watched my own children grow. The bond between my daughters and me and between my sweet husband and me has become more meaningful with this passing year. I marvel at the souls entrusted to our care.

• I often fall short and find myself inadequate, yet, this year I have had to search for answers to overcome my own weaknesses – made even more apparent by the title “Young Mother of the Year.” Despite my faults, thank you for placing your confidence in me.

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The job of motherhood has challenged the far reaches of my soul, yet I am so grateful for these challenges and opportunities. Through our daily efforts as mothers, the ordinary can become extraordinary.

Truly, motherhood is the most extraordinary work I will ever do.

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American Mothers Inc. has selected Utah's 2012 Young Mother of the Year!
Lori Conger is a remarkable, down-to-earth gal you definitely will want to meet.
Her blog - Making Motherhood Matter - is found here!

Thursday, February 02, 2012

A Return to Virtue


Many of you have seen and read my mom's book: A Return to Virtue.

I am biased, but want to recommend it as reading that is pertinent to the lives we are living (and aiming to live).

In the book, my mom relays her experiences and insights gained by running multiple marathons with the race of life. Through spiritual insight and personal stories, she endorses a virtuous lifestyle of strict training, being more fit for the kingdom, and setting our course to focus on the finish.

Within the pages, she teaches how purity yields sustaining power. "I have embarked on a journey to reinstate the word virtue into our vocabulary and our lives," my mom writes. "We call for a social reform, but what is really needed is a moral reform—a call for a return to virtue."

"A Return To Virtue" can be purchased in Deseret Book stores or online.

Wednesday, February 01, 2012

Family Dinner:
Chicken & Wild Rice Soup

This recipe makes a super easy, crowd-pleasing dinner. I assemble it in the morning and let it cook slowly in the crockpot, but it could easily be made over the stove a half-hour prior to being served!

We love to eat this with salad, rolls and oven roasted asparagus.

Chicken and Wild Rice Soup
2 tbsp. butter
1/2 cup seasoned bread crumbs
2 cans cream of chicken soup
2 cups cooked chicken, chopped (as a shortcut, I use Costco canned chicken - just 1 large can)
1 cup carrots, sliced or julienne
1 cup celery, diced
2 pkg. long grain and wild rice (Rice-a-Roni) with seasoning packets
5 cups chicken broth (I often use 5 cups water and 5 bouillon cubes)
5 cups water
1/2 cup cream

In small saucepan, make a roux with butter and bread crumbs (warm the butter until frothy, then gradually add crumbs and cook, while stirring, until golden brown).
In crockpot, combine all ingredients except cream (do include the roux). Cover and cook on low heat for 4-6 hours, or until rice is done. Add cream just prior to serving.

Makes 8+ servings.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Our Beautiful Earth
Reminds Me to Make Good Choices

Louisa's was asked to speak in Primary this past Sunday. I love her words and reasoning:

Every summer my family goes to Jackson Lake. And we see how beautiful the world is. When I see the animals and the trees, the lakes and mountains, I am reminded that Jesus created all of this world.

It must have taken so long for Jesus to make the world so beautiful!

When I see the mountains, they remind me of the temple. I want to choose the right so that I can get married in the temple someday.

When I hike in the mountains it reminds me of the pioneers. Pioneer children knew they were getting closer to the temple.

When I see a clear lake, it reminds me of choosing the right or getting baptized.

When I see the moon and the stars it reminds me to say my prayers.

In nature when it is quiet, I can feel the Holy Ghost. The Holy Ghost reminds me of Jesus and the beautiful earth that he made. I am so glad that the beautiful earth reminds me to make good choices.

Monday, January 30, 2012

Recommended Reading
for Princesses in Training

Today I sent out a query via Facebook:

A few of the books recommended by friends grace our bookshelves:
Fanny's Dream - We can't read Fanny's Dream without being reminded of how, despite life's ordinary beauty, it is so wonderful to have a prince-in-plain-clothes for a husband/dad.
The Paper Bag Princess - I love the message that our lives can take unexpected twists and turns and yet, still end "happily ever after." This book was given to our girls by their loving aunt Vickie years ago. So appropriate, now that I look back at the twists and turns our lives have taken in the span of years that have followed! For those who have read this book, do you think this book was the origin of that best-compliment-of-all, "You would look great even in a paper bag"?
Falling for Rapunzel and Waking Beauty - both darling twists on princess tales that are laugh-out-loud funny.
Do Princesses Wear Hiking Boots? - as my friend Kathryn said, this book "teaches the child that the princess is inside of them!" Plus, I love the idea of a princess being strong and active!
The Very Fairy Princess - a silly view of the life of a girl who believes she is a fairy princess, because she feels it deep inside! This tale shows that "real life fairy princesses" skin their knees and yet can still find ways to "sparkle."

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I loved hearing people's recommendations! Some of the books shared that we have not read include:
The True Princess by Angela Hunt - a true princess is not the one who is beautiful, dressed in fine gowns, being waited on & pampered by servants. A true princess is one who is kind, loving, humble, and a servant.
The Princess and the Kiss by Jennie Bishop - about the importance of purity.
Princess Furball - variant of the Cinderella story, where a nurse teaches the princess "to be strong and capable and clever, besides being beautiful."
God's Wisdom for Little Girls - Biblical verses from Proverbs 31 applied to our modern-day lives.
The Way Home, A Princess Story by Max Lucado - a story of God's redemptive love. From the book, "Princess Anna, adopted by the king in her infancy and now a young woman, is intrigued by the world that lies beyond the lush, green hills of the kingdom. When Anna seeks to satisfy her curiosity, she falls under the influence of the Lowlanders and begins to resemble their haggard style. Never to let a child slip away that easily, the king follows her, and trades his life for hers in order to provide her with a way back home. Despite the king's sacrifice, the choice to return home is ultimately Anna's to make."
Mufaro's Beautiful Daughters - An African variant of the Cinderella story, where two sisters, who are both beautiful, are invited by the King to his palace, where one will be chosen as his wife. The beauty of one sister is only external, while the internal beauty of the daughter chosen as worthy to be the King's wife, shines through in her kindness and generosity.
Daughter of a King - teaches children their divine identity, while reminding us, as adults, how we should behave.

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Some books that look fun for the 3-5 year old aspiring princess:
Willa the Wonderful - Willa, a pig, wants to be a fairy princess. A fun book suited for younger children.
Belinda the Ballerina - never give up, follow your dreams!

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One of our personal favorite "princess" books (not mentioned on Facebook, and given to our family by loving cousins) is The Princess and the Three Knights by Karen Kingsbury. This tale is about a how love always protects. The King selects a Knight for his daughter (the princess) to marry. The Knights make it through a series of tests. For the last test, the King asks them to pretend the princess is riding with them on their horse. They are to then ride as fast and hard as they can toward a cliff. "We will see which of you can take the princess closest to the cliff without going over the edge." The first two knights come shockingly close to the edge of the cliff. The third knight remains calm and whispers "I can do everything through God who gives me strength." But when the King asks him to perform the test, he says "Your majesty, I love the princess. She is more precious to me than anything in the kingdom...I wouldn't take her anywhere near that cliff."

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I would love to hear if you have added recommendations
or would like to further endorse a book listed above!
Feel free to speak up - send your comments my way!

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

"What My Mother Means to Me"
Essay Contest


Each year, American Mothers, Inc. sponsors a National Essay Contest, "What My Mother Means to Me."


Would your child &/or 5th grade students at your child's school like to participate? Original essays (150 words or less) are due by February 10th.
2011 Essay Contest Winner, Andrea Perez from Oklahoma
Forms and regulations are available at the American Mother's website, or feel free to leave a comment here if you would like additional information!

Saturday, January 07, 2012

Sledding at Sugarhouse

Lesson Learned This Day: Cherished memories can be made even when the laundry pile at home is high. The key is to walk away, join in on the fun, and forget about all the work that awaits!

Friday, January 06, 2012

Friday Afternoon Fun!



I love so many things about this video:
  1. This is the kind of fun that uses creativity (which, to quote Ella, "is celebrated at our house") but, thankfully is the kind of entertainment that does not make a mess (messes too often are the byproduct of creative endeavors around here)! 
  2. Louisa's laugh is showcased. Her laughter is contagious and lends such a bright, happy air to our home. 
  3. The video shows the silly, sweet and supportive nature of the friendship Ella and Louisa share… which, to me, is the real "magic" behind this little trick.

P.S. My embarrassment over the "wahoo" toward the end will (hopefully) keep me from commentary in future films.